ALPHA FEMALES

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WEARING:American Apparel Turtleneck Crop Top + High Waist Jeans, Oak + Fort Flowing Trench Coat, Alexander Wang Marion Bag and Converse High Tops.

I am sure that you have heard the expression - Alpha Male before, but I am glad to say there is also an equivalent to that : The Alpha Female. I like to think that I am in this category. It is not easy to carry on in this exclusive (but growing) niche. People either think you are mean or just plain Cruella. I don't mind the stereotyping though. An Alpha Male is usually associated with power and authority, however when it is used about a female, the connotation is often quite on the other side of the spectrum. 

But fear not, be yourself, let others think whatever they want to think and carry on. Do it with self confidence, assertiveness, work hard, and utilize your intelligence to be more than just a witch. If you are anything like me, you will chase down your dreams and stay close to your true friends. When someone is hating on you, take that as a compliment, it just means they are intimidated by you or they don't know you at all. Don't feel the need to apologize to anyone who doesn't realize the talent or work ethic that you possess. 
 
Photos by Susanna Corniani.

Comments

  1. Joana Santos1 April 2013 at 08:43

    The best! :P

    xoxo

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  2. Unknown1 April 2013 at 09:01

    you're rocking this cropped top babe! xx
    http://www.surfaddictfashionista.com/

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  3. Unknown1 April 2013 at 09:04

    I agree. We shouldn't care about what others think, being an Alpha Female is rewarding. Great post & great outfit (love the coat!!).

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  4. Yuka1 April 2013 at 09:20

    i feel you on that. fellow alpha female here.

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  5. Unknown1 April 2013 at 09:31

    Alpha Female...good,we need more Alpha Females...Great outfit by the way...

    http://lttreasure.blogspot.co.uk/

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  6. J.1 April 2013 at 09:33

    Love this look, all of it. And I love alpha females...nothing wrong with that kind of know it all confidence...

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  7. Anonymous1 April 2013 at 09:48

    My favorite ensemble of all your ensembles, right here!
    To add: there is a saying, "What others think of you is none of your business." When you consider this, it rings true.

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  8. Unknown1 April 2013 at 11:08

    ohhh..love ittt!!! black and white LOVE!!!
    the ALPHA female is the best! i love it on you!
    xo

    ZAF.Fashion
    http://zaf-fashionnn.blogspot.de/

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  9. Dominika1 April 2013 at 11:19

    omg! perfect

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  10. Designer Binary1 April 2013 at 11:32

    Fist bumps... Yes!!

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  11. Katherine1 April 2013 at 12:23

    There' nothing wrong iwth being assertive and knowing what you want - it just seems we make it that way! I dunno why women are perceived as mean or bitchy and men it's just accepted. I love that shot of your shoes and these high waisted jeans - very modern and chic on you

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  12. moiminnie1 April 2013 at 12:47

    Love this post. Such wise words and they really make one's mood better :) I totally agree - the most important thing is doing what you love! On other note, I wish I was able to wear crop tops now. Unfortunately it's still freezing here! www.moiminnie.blogspot.com x

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  13. Adriana Alfaro1 April 2013 at 13:48

    pretty look!
    I love that!
    xoxo!

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  14. Adriana Alfaro1 April 2013 at 13:49

    I love the look!
    so gorgeous!
    xoxo!

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  15. Laura L.1 April 2013 at 14:06

    LOVE IT.

    http://lauralindlar.blogspot.de/
    http://necessarydailydose.tumblr.com/

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  16. Patricia G.1 April 2013 at 14:49

    Love the look! Perfect!
    Kiss

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  17. criscrascrus1 April 2013 at 14:55

    the last pic is awesome!

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  18. FAIIINT1 April 2013 at 15:53

    This is so true Melissa! I hate that any woman that knows what she wants & isn't afraid to go out & get it is considered to be a bit of a bitch or domineering, whereas with men it's a good thing. I think it's becoming more & more accepted though, I know a lot of alpha females!
    This outfit is beautiful as usual, the trench is so lovely & you can never go wrong with high tops, love the jumping shot! :)

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  19. MILEX1 April 2013 at 19:20

    It's brave and wonderful.

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  20. TINA ONG1 April 2013 at 19:21

    Winner minimal and edgy looks. Never boring. Loves xx

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  21. K A T H L E E N 1 April 2013 at 20:19

    I totally agree with you, and think this post rocks! There are so many strong females out there doing their thing, it's so inspiring!

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  22. inkarlcerating2 April 2013 at 00:38

    god why do i love u so much

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  23. miasmode2 April 2013 at 02:06

    Stunning black and white look. The cropped top looks fabulous <3

    xx

    glamdevils

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  24. Daniela Macsim2 April 2013 at 03:27

    Black and white always look perfect!♥

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  25. animalorchestra2 April 2013 at 05:15

    There's definitely a double standard when it comes to strength/assertiveness in men versus the same qualities in women. And it needs to be acknowledged in order for it to be changed.

    Great post. Great outfit as always. x

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  26. Tereza {Drastic Plastic}2 April 2013 at 05:41

    That trench coat is really cool.

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  27. Unknown2 April 2013 at 07:19

    Perfect outfit :)
    You are always so beautiful !


    Http://Fashioneiric.blogspot.com

    Coline ♡

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  28. Tanja Jojic2 April 2013 at 07:50

    I like how the alpha female sounds :D I agree with everything you said =^.^=
    tanyaminxy.blogspot.com

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  29. Lara Siles2 April 2013 at 08:08

    Cool jeans Melissa.

    http://the109block.blogspot.com

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  30. Eline2 April 2013 at 09:19

    i totally agree with what you're saying.
    And you're looking just amazing! God i love your bag.

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  31. Bisous Natasha2 April 2013 at 09:25

    I need to have a flat stomach like your Melissa !!! I got a yoga mat today to do exerscises in my apartment. I need your body, in like 4 weeks, fingers crossed x I love the look as well. White jeans look perfect on you.

    bisous,
    Natasha

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    1. melissa2 April 2013 at 11:05

      Yeah right Natasha your bod is amazing and you are such a babe! I wish you were coming to Coachella!! I need to get fit for the Summer asap xx

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  32. Everythings Always Sunny2 April 2013 at 11:25

    You look amazing, So stunning! that last pic is tripy!

    http://everythingsalwayssunny.com
    Kristin
    xx

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  33. Ilona de Vries2 April 2013 at 12:39

    Thanks for your comment babe! you look great, I'm gonna follow you right now ;-)

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  34. Unknown2 April 2013 at 16:04

    Amazing pics!!!

    xoxo

    http://estilohedonico.blogspot.pt/
    http://www.facebook.com/estilohedonico?ref=ts&fref=ts

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  35. ALLIE NYC2 April 2013 at 17:01

    Very well said. Sad in this day and age you still have to say it. Great look too!


    Ali of

    www.dressingken.com

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  36. Kristina2 April 2013 at 17:46

    Your style is so very different to mine, but I love how you wear it. Great photos too.

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  37. amanda2 April 2013 at 19:33

    stunning!

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  38. Izzy3 April 2013 at 00:25

    stunning outfit, I like the unique cuts and proportions :)

    Metallic Paws

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  39. Johanna Urban3 April 2013 at 05:49

    You look amazing, love the last photo :D !!
    xx

    Johanna, Sweden
    ART FASHION

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  40. Algodão Doce3 April 2013 at 06:47

    You look amazing.

    www.algodao-doce.net

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  41. Virginia3 April 2013 at 07:43

    I loooooove that cropped top! amazing pics!

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  42. Accrochable3 April 2013 at 10:32

    You look amazing! Love your bag and sneakers :-)

    xo The Daily Fashion Drug

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  43. Peet3 April 2013 at 10:45

    I actually needed to read the words from your second paragraph... Thanks. Honestly.

    And as far as your outfit goes - your coat is frigging insane!! You look so cool and in the last photo it actually looks like you're levitating.:D

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  44. Unknown3 April 2013 at 11:36

    I love your style!!
    I love your top!!
    Adriana R
    @RtgRtw

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  45. ROXTHEFOX3 April 2013 at 15:09

    You look so high fashion!

    WWW.ROXTHEFOX.COM

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  46. Reptilia4 April 2013 at 05:10

    Amazing look!!
    Love the top!

    xx

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  47. Katie Frank4 April 2013 at 05:32

    This look is amazing! you look so high fashion! i love your top :)
    http://coeursdefoxes.blogspot.com/

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  48. Karina De Jesus4 April 2013 at 07:19

    I could not agree with you more, keep working hard and developing your talents. who cares about what others have to say, they should just be more concerned with themselves anyway.
    your trench is absolutely beautiful, and I was actually planning on wearing a very similar outfit - my diy white jeans and a cropped turtleneck. as always, on the same wave ;)

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  49. shardette..4 April 2013 at 09:39

    Amazing images. you are floating so effortlessly! Perfect crop top with long jacket combination!

    x Sharday

    SHARDETTE BLOG

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  50. Sandra Martinez4 April 2013 at 11:12

    Hi sweety!! I've just discovered your blog and i like it very much!!
    Beautiful pictures and it is indeed an amazing post!! :) You look like a model!!
    Tell me about my blog:
    http://peaceinmyshoes.blogspot.com.es

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  51. Nobre Sandra4 April 2013 at 11:48

    You look really tall :) The look is great, as usual. The bag is amazing and I really like that last photo ;)

    http://nobresonho.blogspot.pt/

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  52. Unknown4 April 2013 at 12:13

    Wow, you look amazing!

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  53. Helena4 April 2013 at 14:39

    I love your outfit, I love your style, I love your blog!!!
    Super inspiring and of course I'm your newest follower :)

    XOXO
    http://fashion-mask.blogspot.com/

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  54. dsfashion5 April 2013 at 01:46

    amazing!!!congrats girl!

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  55. Jelena Zivanovic5 April 2013 at 04:53

    Great look Melissa, very pretty bag!!
    Happy Friday!

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  56. The Chic Sheet5 April 2013 at 04:55

    Thank you for these words... Some days I need pep talks such as this ;) You rock... always :)



    XX,
    Miranda

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  57. Yulie5 April 2013 at 06:05

    wow this looks amazing !
    Maybe we follow each other !?
    Let me know ! :)

    www.YulieKendra.com

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  58. ellakii sedgwick5 April 2013 at 15:18

    my dear you look so elegant chic i adore your style,
    kisses my dear from,
    http://www.littlefashionwhitelies.com/blue-black-the-little-blue-dress/

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  59. maya6 April 2013 at 03:52

    Amazing look, your style is spot-on perfect! Great words and advice, i'm a lot like that too.
    xx

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  60. Unknown6 April 2013 at 23:05

    you wear the cropped top so well. great shot of the sneakers!

    <3Amanda
    feast.fashion.faves

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  61. BELULOVE9 April 2013 at 06:56

    lovely pics, love the combinations of bicolor!!! great


    wanna follow each other??? kisses

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  62. amalie9 April 2013 at 07:54

    OMG. looving this. i wanna look that good in a crop top x

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  63. Nicola14 April 2013 at 13:47

    Your style is dope i love it. Cool blog.

    Nicola
    x
    http://yourloveissowifi.blogspot.com/

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  64. Unknown19 April 2013 at 13:25

    Cool pics x

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  65. like a boy24 April 2013 at 10:59

    wow! you look amazing<3

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  66. S20 May 2013 at 18:07

    enjoyed reading this definition of the alpha female ;) what i really struggle to understand is how some women find it empowering to put other women down!

    ps - great outfit too

    steph / absolutely-fuzzy.com

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